Open your Heart and you will live a happier life.

I have witnessed at least two people with somewhat similar family happings and yet the end result of their hearts are so different.
Mike and I have a family member (in the cousin branch).....their daughter was young (18 appx) when she became pregnant from a man of another race. She gave birth to a child. The father would not accept this child or his daughter. She then gave birth to yet another child from same man. This father could not open his heart....deal with what God has dealt him and thus he is so unhappy. His wife has chosen to accept and love her daughter and grandbabies. Her heart is happy. His heart is not happy. He chose not accept and love daughter and grandbabies.

I work with a gal whose daughter also gave birth at appx. same age out of wedlock to a lovely boy from a young man of another race. They are together, unlike the other young mother. This second young mother is also about to give birth to another child (girl!) in March to same young father. The difference of hearts. The second young mother's mother is full of love and happiness and acceptance of her daughter's children. She is full of joy....the daughter is happy (works with mom at my work).

I hope to learn from these people. I hope to have an open heart. I want to live my short life on this world with joy in my heart and full of happiness. God bless the person that has an open heart and accepts what life has plopped in their lap.